15 things a guy thinks when he realizes you blocked him

15 things a guy thinks when he realizes you blocked him

Posted by Never Liked It Anyway on September 10, 2022
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‍Are you one of those girls who blocks a guy whenever you realize you don’t want to be with him anymore?

If yes, you might be wondering what he thinks about all of that once he realizes he’s blocked!

I blocked the guy I was seeing a few months back after finding out he was not serious about us, but I was desperate to know what he was thinking after I blocked him, so I did some research.

I looked online and even asked all my guy friends, and I finally had a pretty good summary of what a guy thinks when you block him!

1) He thinks you’re nuts

If you haven’t already broken up with the guy, this is most likely his first reaction when you block him.

He’ll think you’re crazy if you never gave him a genuine reason for blocking him in the first place.

This is why so many guys think women are nuts, as they find it very difficult to figure out how a girl’s mind works.

He definitely thinks you’re nuts if you never explained why you blocked him. He won’t understand why you did it and will probably think you are just being crazy.

He might even think that you did it because he didn’t want to commit to you.

You see, unless there was an obvious reason for blocking him, guys will often resort back to the “she’s nuts” excuse whenever they get blocked.

Personally, I think that is merely an act of self-defense, trying to make you seem bad because they know they messed up.

Sure, you could get mad at him calling you nuts because after all, you have a legit reason for blocking him, but the thing is, it really doesn’t matter.

I mean in all honesty, what does it matter if one guy (and maybe a few of his friends) thinks you’re nuts?

It really doesn’t matter!

You don’t want anything to do with him anymore and that is the end of it. Plus, you know in your heart that you are right and so what if a few people think you’re nuts?

I know it can be difficult, especially when you get such serious feedback, but to be honest, you did nothing wrong and you have nothing to worry about.

If he thinks you’re nuts, that is his problem and he can take it up with himself.

2) He feels betrayed

If you never give a guy a genuine reason for blocking him, he will probably feel betrayed.

He’ll probably start resenting you, especially if you were in a relationship with him or close to being in one. And if you now have a new boyfriend, he’ll probably be super mad at you.

He’ll probably think that you blocked him in order to protect your new relationship because you’re scared to break up with him.

He’ll probably feel like you betrayed him because you never gave him a genuine reason for blocking him.

He’ll feel like you used him and never cared about him, and he’ll probably want to get back at you.

Now: to be fair, if there wasn’t a proper reason to block him, and you simply grew tired of being with him, blocking might not have been the best move.

You see, it’s so much better and more mature to go ahead and tell someone “hey, I don’t think this is working out between us, I’m sorry.” than to block them without a word.

I understand that sometimes, blocking is necessary, but I’ve been on the other side of this situation too, and nothing sucks more than never knowing why or what happened.

So: there is a very good chance that this guy feels betrayed and will want some answers.

There really isn’t a way to make this much better, you can either text him and apologize and tell him things aren’t working out, or you just leave him blocked and let him stew in his own juices.

3) He wonders if he did something wrong

If you never break up with the guy and you just block him, he’ll probably wonder if he did something wrong.

He’ll probably be confused about why you blocked him and will want to figure it out.

While he’s trying to figure out what he did wrong, he’ll probably try to contact you and make sure that you’re okay.

If he can’t get in touch with you, he’ll probably start feeling like something is wrong and that you’re blocking him because you don’t want to talk to him anymore.

He’ll probably think that you could have handled the situation differently and that you could have talked to him about it instead of blocking him.

And to be fair, he’s not wrong.

If the guy doesn’t know what he did wrong, it usually means that you didn’t talk about it before – so he is most likely confused.

After all, the girl he wanted to be with suddenly stopped talking to him out of the blue.

While you might think you are 100% in the right here, I have to say that sometimes, you really need to communicate with the guy before you cut him out of your life.

He might have done something that made you feel uncomfortable, and he might not have had any idea.

It’s okay to talk about it, but if the guy doesn’t know what he did wrong, it probably means that you should have talked to him before you blocked him.

Now: I’m not saying you need to give him another chance, because you really don’t. All I’m saying is that maybe he would have been better off if you simply sent a quick breakup text or called him.

The thing is, closure is important in moving on. I know, you probably couldn’t care less, but when you don’t give him any closure, it will take him a lot longer to move on.

This is because a tiny part of him will still hold onto the hope that maybe, just maybe, you will come back or it was all a misunderstanding.

In my opinion, the best thing you can do is just tell him the truth.

4) He doesn’t care that you blocked him

This is probably the response you’ll get if the guy never liked you in the first place.

He’ll probably just shrug it off and move on with his life. He’ll probably not even care that you blocked him and will still be wondering why you ever liked him in the first place.

If you ever liked this guy and he was aware of it but didn’t reciprocate the feelings, then he probably won’t care that you blocked him.

He may even be happy that you blocked him, as he doesn’t have to deal with you anymore.

I know, this sounds terrible, and that’s because it is!

However, some guys are douchebags and will make you feel terrible. The thing is, if a guy really doesn’t care about you at all, then blocking him was probably the best move you could have made.

To be fair, the tiniest percentage of guys will act like this and not care about you blocking them – most people will care a lot.

However, if you happened to hit the jackpot and you got the guy who doesn’t care, then you’re in luck – you did the right thing by blocking him.

5) He’s relieved that he doesn’t have to be the one to break up

If you’re in a committed relationship with him and you block him without a genuine reason, he’ll probably be mad and want to break up with you.

However, if the guy already wanted out of the relationship, you blocking him might be exactly what he was waiting for.

He’ll be relieved that you blocked him because now he doesn’t have to break up with you. He’ll probably be glad that he doesn’t have to go through the pain of breaking up with you.

He may even be excited to start dating again, as he now doesn’t have to be in a relationship with you.

I know, this sounds really rough, but again, this only applies to a tiny percentage of people.

If your relationship was really unhealthy, to the point where both of you wanted the relationship to be over, then yes, there is a good chance that he is actually relieved to be able to break up with you.

The thing is, breakups can be difficult, even if you really don’t want to be together anymore, they are emotional.

You will most definitely be in your feels and some guys want to avoid that at all costs.

Instead, he’ll be happy that you are the one who pulled the plug on the relationship by blocking him.

In that case, if you were really at this point already, then there probably wasn’t anything to be saved in that relationship anyways, you’re better off alone.

Trust me, it’s so much better to be single than to be in bad company, so you did the right thing when you decided to block him.

6) He’s trying to figure out how to get you back

If you were in a serious relationship with the guy and you blocked him, then he’ll probably be trying to figure out how to get you back.

He’ll probably be confused about why you blocked him and will want to talk to you about it.

If you don’t respond to his messages, then he’ll probably try to figure out how to get you back and win you over.

He’ll be trying to find ways to get you to unblock him. He’ll probably even seek out advice from his friends and family and try to figure out what he needs to do to win you over again.

If he likes you, then he’ll probably be trying to figure out how to get you back.

You see, it’s all about his feelings. If he really liked you, he won’t stop until he gets a chance to make things right with you.

If that’s the case, then he’ll be trying to figure out how to get you back.

He’ll probably be trying to figure out what went wrong in the relationship and what he needs to do in order to win you over again.

Sometimes, this might go as far as him reaching out to your friends because he can’t get through to you.

In that case, if you were really in a serious relationship with him, then he’ll probably be trying to figure out how to get you back.

The thing is, if he goes through that much effort just to be with you, then you must have really meant a lot to him.

In that case, you will notice him trying everything in his power to at least get a chance to talk to you.

Now it’s honestly up to you: do you want to give him that chance?

Sometimes, a little bit of space is exactly what is needed to get a relationship back on track again, so you need to decide if there is still a chance for you two or if that ship has sailed.

To be honest with you, if a guy is trying this hard to make things right with you, I do believe you owe him at least a tiny text telling him that it’s over.

Otherwise, he won’t give up hope for who knows how long and will keep reaching out to you.

Here’s the thing: if you don’t want to get back together with him, then you should be honest with him and tell him that.

If he still wants to talk to you, then he’ll probably get over it eventually.

But if he doesn’t and you don’t want to be friends with him, then that’s just fine too because now he knows exactly where he stands with you.

I mean, they say that breaking up is hard to do but it doesn’t have to be. You can break up and not feel like a big loser at all because breaking up is actually the easiest thing in the world if you are determined and know that it’s the best decision for both of you.

All you have to do is just tell your ex that you no longer want anything serious with him and that’s it. You’re done!

7) His ego is probably hurt

If you were in a serious relationship with the guy and you blocked him, then his ego probably took a pretty big hit.

He might even be wondering if you ever liked him in the first place. He’ll probably be so confused about why you blocked him that he won’t even try to contact you.

Then again, he’ll probably be too proud to try to contact you again, as he’ll probably believe that he doesn’t deserve you anymore.

He may even start believing that you were better off without him and that you were just waiting for a good time to block him.

Now: this is a difficult position to be in because I don’t know if your intentions were to actually hurt his ego and make him feel like less of a man or if you actually did it because you needed to end things with him.

I mean, if you blocked him because you needed to end things with him, then that’s fine and I’m sure he understands.

But if the reason for blocking him was to hurt his ego and make him feel like a loser, then I think that’s not very nice of you.

I mean, what kind of person does that? What kind of person blocks someone in order to hurt their feelings?

Well, obviously some people do that but it’s not cool and I hope you didn’t do it just because you were being mean.

But I understand, most of the time, people have a very valid reason for blocking someone, and it’s not to hurt someone else, but rather to protect themselves.

I mean, if you blocked him because of the reasons I’ve listed above, then I think that’s completely justified and it’s not your fault.

You were just doing what you needed to do in order to protect yourself from a possible heartbreak, so it’s not your fault at all.

So what if he’s a little hurt? It’s only for a short period of time anyway. If there is a valid reason you put an end to this relationship like that, then he can be hurt, it doesn’t matter.

8) He is disappointed

If you’re in a serious relationship with the guy and you block him, then he’ll probably be very disappointed in you.

He’ll probably be wondering why you did this to him and will want to talk to you about it.

If you don’t respond to his messages, then he’ll probably be disappointed and will want to come to terms with the fact that the relationship is over.

He’ll probably be disappointed in you because he’ll be feeling like you let him down.

He’ll think that you could have handled the situation differently and that you were too harsh for blocking him. He’ll probably even feel like you were rushing things.

You see, when you do something like block someone completely, then you often need to face the fact that he will be disappointed.

On the one hand, he will be disappointed that the relationship is over, but on the other hand, he will feel like you let him down and that you didn’t handle things properly.

So, if you block him, then he’ll probably be disappointed with you and will probably want to talk to you about it.

Now: I know it’s not fun having someone be disappointed in you, but that’s kind of what you have to deal with when you decide to block a guy completely.

He will be even more disappointed if there was no proper reason for blocking him, or if you just blocked him for no reason at all.

That’s why: if you decide to block a guy, then you have to be ready for the fact that he will be disappointed and that he’ll want to talk to you about it.

9) He knows he messed up

If you were in a serious relationship with the guy and you blocked him, then he’ll probably know that he messed up.

He’ll probably feel guilty about it and will want to talk to you about it. He’ll probably want to talk to you about why he did whatever it was that made you feel like you had to block him.

This guy will probably want to try to make things right between the two of you and wants to tell you that he’s sorry.

If he knows that he messed up, then he’ll probably want to tell you that he’s sorry and wants to make it up to you.

Okay, this one only applies if he is actually a decent guy.

In that case, he might realize that he truly messed up and that he needs to make things right.

If he really messed up and is a decent guy, then he might realize that he needs to make things right between the two of you.

If so, then you will have to talk to him about it.

You see, if you block a guy completely and decide not to talk to him, then he’ll probably know that he messed up but that you won’t talk to him about it.

It’s truly up to you whether or not you want to give him a chance to explain himself to you or whether or not you just want to cut him completely out of your life.

So: If you decide to block a guy completely, then he’ll probably know that he messed up and that he needs to make things right.

If so, then you will have to talk to him about it.

10) He is confused

If you were in a serious relationship with the guy and you blocked him, then he’ll probably be very confused about why you did that.

He’ll wonder what he did wrong and will want to talk to you about it. If he doesn’t get an explanation from you, then he’ll probably be confused and will want to try to figure it out for himself.

He’ll probably be trying to look back on the relationship and figure out where he went wrong. He’ll try to come to terms with the fact that the relationship is over and will want to understand why it happened.

There are many different things that a guy might think when you block him.

If you never break up with the guy and you just block him, then he’ll probably want to know why.

To be fair, if you ever liked him in the first place, then he’ll probably want to know why you blocked him.

You may have just rushed into the relationship too soon and need some time apart to think things through and figure out if the relationship is what you really want.

Either way, if the guy is super confused, he might try to reach out to you for closure.

In that case, you have to decide whether you give him that closure or not.

11) He feels obsessed

Okay, you know how we always want the thing we can’t have?

Well, this is how it feels when a guy gets obsessed with you after you blocked him.

He’ll feel like you’re the only girl for him and that he can never get over you. He won’t want to talk to other girls because he’ll feel like he’s losing his mind if he does.

If this happens, then it’s totally up to you whether or not you give him closure or not.

The thing is because he knows he can’t have you, that makes you all the more interesting to him.

All of a sudden, even if he didn’t care a lot before, he will want to know what you are up to, why you aren’t talking to him, and if he’s still in your life.

He’ll want to be with you and will try to get back into your life. But if you don’t care about him, then you’re probably not going to give him closure or try to change your mind.

So keep the guy at arm’s length and don’t let him get too close.

When a guy gets obsessed with someone, he can be very annoying and clingy because he wants more than anything to have the girl he loves.

It’s kind of sad that it sometimes takes measures such as blocking someone to finally break through and get them to appreciate your worth, isn’t it?

12) You made him insecure

Another thing that happens when you block a guy is that he’ll start to feel insecure about himself.

He might start to doubt his looks, his masculinity, and even his ability to get a girl.

You can tell him that it wasn’t really that big of a deal and you just had some things going on in your life that made it hard for you to date him.

When a guy feels insecure about himself, he can become clingy and obsessive because he wants validation from the girl he loves.

All of a sudden, even if he didn’t care much before, he will want to know what’s going on in your life and what’s wrong with you that didn’t allow you to date him.

His insecurity will get the best of him and he will start to get clingy and obsessive.

13) He will be nosy

If you block a guy, there is a good chance that he will start to be nosy and intrusive.

He might want to know what you are up to, if you’re happy, and if there is a guy or girl that you are dating.

He might even try to get in touch with your friends just to get information about your life.

When a guy gets nosy, it’s really annoying because he just wants to know what’s going on in the girl’s life.

In the end, it’s really just a coping mechanism for him to deal with being blocked – he wants to find out what is going on in your life, instead!

Of course, if he gets too intrusive, you can simply tell him to back off and stop asking questions.

14) He’ll start to get jealous

If you block a guy, he might start to get jealous and possessive because he wants you to be all his.

He might become really clingy and needy because he feels like you’re rejecting him when you don’t want to be with him anymore.

It’s not unusual for a guy who is blocked to become jealous and possessive because he feels like you might be dating someone else.

He might even become obsessive and clingy because he wants to know what you are up to and what you are doing.

In that case, you really need strong boundaries to deal with that. If you cut him out of your life, it was for a reason, so he has no place to be jealous or possessive anymore.

You can tell him that you are done with him and you are not interested in talking to him anymore.

If you are firm, then he will hopefully understand that things are over between you two and that he needs to give up hope.

15) He is sad

Last but not least, you might have broken the poor guy’s heart.

If you block someone, he might be really sad because he wants to be with you and he feels rejected when you stop talking to him.

He will start to feel depressed because he feels like you are breaking his heart.

He might even start to have an inferiority complex and feel insecure that other guys are getting more attention from you than him.

If that’s the case, it’s very important to give the guy some space and maybe tell him that it’s not necessarily his fault but that you won’t work out as a couple.

You need to tell him that there is no relationship or anything going on between the two of you and that he needs to move on and focus on himself.

What does he think?

After reading all of this, what do you think the guy you blocked thinks?

As you can see, his reactions can vary extremely, because it always depends on the situation and the person.

However, you need to know that he might get really sad, jealous, and possessive because you blocked him.

The next thing you should do is to tell him that you have been blocking him for a reason and that he needs to respect your boundaries.

If he does not respect your boundaries, then there is no point in having a relationship with him anymore and you need to cut it off now.

Also, make sure that he knows that there is nothing wrong with dating other people or being in love with other people.

Either way, good luck with your situation and I hope you feel like you did the right thing!

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