If you’re married, chances are that you’ve had to deal with some challenging times as part of your relationship.
After all, you have spent the last few years living with him and learning about his likes and dislikes.
For example, there are still times when you can’t help but wonder if your husband is not that interested in you anymore.
If you feel like your husband doesn’t find you attractive anymore, take a look at these signs to see if they ring true for you:
1) He doesn’t compliment you anymore.
A man who is not attracted to you may not be able to give you the attention you need.
He may also have trouble paying attention to what you say or focusing on your needs.
This can make it more difficult for you to feel loved and appreciated.
You need to understand that these behaviors are a sign of trouble in your marriage.
If he doesn’t act romantically toward you, there might be another woman in his life with whom he’s having an affair.
He may also be emotionally disconnected from you and unwilling or unable to show affectionate feelings.
When this happens, it can be hard to know how to respond.
You might feel confused and hurt by his lack of interest in you and become more withdrawn from him.
You might also have unrealistic expectations about what a relationship should look like and start comparing yourself to other women he’s dating.
Fortunately, there are things you can do if your husband is not attracted to you.
First, make sure that your needs are being met.
When he does show romantic interest, continue showing affection and communicating your needs clearly so that he understands that he has work to do before the situation gets out of hand.
2) He doesn’t look at you the same way he used to.
A woman’s body changes after she has a baby. Not only does she gain weight, but her breasts and hips become rounder and wider.
You might notice that your husband isn’t as attracted to the way you look anymore.
While it’s normal for him to get distracted by other things when you’re pregnant, this is something that he can’t control.
He may not realize how important his feelings for you are until he sees you again after having a baby.
If this is the first time he’s been with someone postpartum, it will take him some time to get used to seeing you look different.
He may feel uncomfortable or even angry at first.
However, once he gets used to the changes in your body, he may begin to see you in a new light.
There are ways that you can help him cope with these new feelings.
Try not to criticize him for feeling this way. It’s natural for him to be bothered by what he sees when he looks at you.
Instead of making his feelings about you into an issue, try to accept them and show that you understand what he’s going through.
If you feel comfortable doing so, let him know that you’re open to talking about this issue in more detail if necessary.
3) He doesn’t initiate physical contact.
There are several reasons why your husband may not be attracted to you.
He may have been raised in a culture where men aren’t expected to show physical affection to women.
He may also be dealing with low self-esteem and insecurity.
Regardless of the reason, you must accept and respect his feelings.
By doing so, you can foster a stronger connection between the two of you and improve the chances of a successful relationship down the road.
Another barrier to overcome is communication.
Communication is by far the most important factor when it comes to building a strong relationship with your husband.
If you don’t feel comfortable sharing your thoughts and feelings, then how can he?
If he doesn’t know what you’re feeling and thinking all the time, then how can he possibly understand who you are as a person?
To make matters worse, he may even get the sense that you’re hiding something from him or are holding back on him somehow.
To overcome these communication barriers, you need to be honest about what’s going on in your life.
Be sure to express your emotions and listen attentively when he does so as well.
Also, keep in mind that it’s never too late to start over together – no matter how long it’s been since you first started dating!
4) He’s always busy with work or other things when you’re around.
One of the most common reasons for a man to not want sex or to make excuses for why he doesn’t want it is that he’s not attracted to his wife.
While this could be the case, there is often another reason that is deeper and more complex.
The first step in addressing this issue is to ask yourself why you think your husband isn’t attracted to you.
If he has no clear reason, then he probably just doesn’t find you sexually attractive.
But if he has an explanation, then there may be something else going on.
One possible reason is that he feels threatened by your sexual presence.
This could be because you’re more physically attractive than him (or at least better looking than your friends), or because you’re more confident around men than he is.
He might also feel threatened by your sexual advances (even if they’re not sexual).
Whatever the case may be, there may be a good reason behind his lack of interest in sex with you.
The other possibility is that his feelings of insecurity are connected to his work or other life circumstances.
It could be that his work pressure is so high that he can’t spend time on personal matters like sex with his wife.
Or it could be that something in his life outside of work has changed recently (such as a divorce, death of a loved one, or job loss).
Whatever it is, know that it is not your fault.
5) You feel like he’s more interested in other women.
Most women feel insecure about their bodies, at least some of the time.
This can lead to some issues, including low self-esteem and the feeling that your husband is more interested in other women.
While it’s true that men tend to be more visual than women, many other factors can make it seem like they’re looking elsewhere.
Here are some of the main reasons why you might feel insecure:
- First, it’s important to remember that not all men are equally attracted to all women. Some men prefer thin figures with a smaller waist and smaller breasts; others prefer curves with bigger busts and fuller hips. In some cases, these preferences are genetic; in others, they’ve learned from watching television or online.
- Second, it’s important to remember that you’re not alone in feeling insecure about your body. Many women struggle with this issue, which is why it’s so important to talk about the issue openly and honestly. While it may be tempting to keep things to yourself, it’s better to confront your concerns head-on than to continue living in denial.
- Finally, don’t be afraid to ask for help if you feel like you need it. There are many resources out there that can help you improve your self-image and boost your confidence. I know just who to call for help. Read on.
If you’re dealing with issues like your husband doesn’t find you attractive, have you considered getting to the root of the issue?
You see, most of our shortcomings in love stem from our complicated inner relationship with ourselves – how can you fix the external without seeing to the internal first?
I learned this from the world-renowned shaman Rudá Iandê, in his incredible free video on Love and Intimacy.
So, if you want to improve the relationships you have with others and solve your problem by catching your husband’s eyes again, start with yourself.
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6) He talks about your appearance in a negative way.
It’s easy for your husband to talk about you negatively if he doesn’t find you attractive.
When he expresses his feelings in that type of way, it can make you feel bad about yourself and cause you to start doubting your looks.
There are also some ways that your husband can talk negatively about your appearance even when he does find you attractive.
Many people tend to view their attractiveness as an important part of their self-worth, which can lead them to judge themselves harshly when they don’t feel attractive.
Others may have unrealistic ideas of what they should look like or how they should dress because they see a lot of other people around them who do fit their ideal image.
Either way, negative comments about your appearance can make you feel bad about yourself, which can lead to self-esteem problems and low self-confidence.
If your husband talks negatively about your appearance in any way, let him know that it hurts your feelings and make him stop doing it.
You could also express your feelings by saying something like “I wish that you would stop saying things like that because it makes me feel bad about myself.”
By letting him know how his comments affect you, you can help him understand how his words can be hurtful and change the way he speaks to you moving forward.
This is a must for a healthier relationship.
7) He criticizes the way you dress or how you look.
He criticizes the way you dress or how you look. He might say things like, “You dress like a slob” or “You should start wearing makeup.”
If your husband is critical of your appearance, it’s important to address the issue head-on.
Rather than avoid this topic, sit down with him and make sure that he understands that you take pride in your appearance.
Also, make sure that he knows that you appreciate his opinion and feedback but that you don’t want to hear about it all the time.
By doing this, you can show him that his criticism doesn’t bother you, and this will help decrease the frequency of his comments.
Being critical of your appearance can cause some serious issues between you and your husband.
First of all, it’s just not very nice for him to be so mean about something as personal as how you look.
Second, it can cause tension in the relationship if he constantly talks negatively about how attractive you are.
Third, it might lead him to feel insecure if he thinks less of himself because of how he looks or what he wears.
Finally, when your husband feels insecure or inadequate, he may start to act out and treat you even worse than before.
8) He no longer wants to be seen in public with you.
If your husband doesn’t find you attractive, he no longer wants to be seen in public with you.
He is embarrassed to be seen with you, and this makes him feel insecure and unhappy.
Of course, his behavior will reflect this insecurity, so he will withdraw and avoid being social.
This can lead to isolation, which can make it even harder for him to get over his feelings of inadequacy.
There are several reasons why a man might not be attracted to his wife.
But other times, there may be underlying issues that need to be addressed before he will start feeling more comfortable around you.
The first step is for him to admit that he has a problem.
Once he’s ready to do that, the best thing you can do is show him that you’re willing to work through this together.
You can start by showing remorse for anything that has made him feel uncomfortable around you.
You can also take steps to improve your appearance (if necessary) and show him that you’re committed to improving the situation.
Ultimately though, it’s up to him whether he’s willing to accept these changes or not, so keep working at making yourself more attractive until he starts looking at you differently.
9) And finally, you feel like he’s just waiting for you to leave so he can be with someone else.
The truth is that looks do play a role in how men feel about their partners, but it doesn’t mean that looks are the main cause of dissatisfaction.
Many women feel unattractive when they are not appealing to their partner because of a lack of confidence and self-esteem issues.
While there are many reasons why someone might feel unattractive, such as an eating disorder or physical disfigurement, the most common one is insecurity.
A man may not be attracted to his partner’s appearance if he has low self-esteem or feels unattractive himself because of poor body image.
Additionally, most women have an unrealistic idea of what they think they look like compared to what other women look like.
If you are feeling insecure about your appearance or your relationship with your partner, there are things you can do to become more attractive to him.
One way to improve your appeal is by taking care of your appearance by wearing makeup and dressing nicely.
By doing this, you are sending the message that you care about yourself and want to look nice to your partner.
Another thing you can do is learn more about yourself so that you know what type of woman you want to be.
This will give you the confidence you need to make yourself more attractive to your partner.
The points in this article will give you ideas about what to do when your husband doesn’t find you attractive.
However, let’s be honest about how your husband is not finding you attractive anymore.
It’s not easy. It’s enough to make you want to give up on love and walk away.
But I want to suggest a solution. You have all the tools you need to do this right now, right where you are.
I learned about this from the modern-day shaman Rudá Iandê. He taught me how the lies we tell ourselves about love are part of what traps us in things like being stressed about your husband’s lack of feelings towards you.
As Rudá explains in this transformational free video, love is available to us if we cut through the lies that we tell ourselves.
We need to face the facts about marriage problems and love.
The alternative is to end up in loveless relationships or endless dating frustration that only leaves us cold and empty.
The alternative is to be sunk in stagnant codependency and completely unable to resolve things like your husband’s indifference.
Rudá’s teachings showed me a whole new perspective.
While watching, I felt like someone understood my struggles to find love for the first time – and finally offered an actual, practical solution to what to do when my husband lost physical interest in me.
If you’re done with wasting your time on a love that doesn’t work, I invite you to watch this short video and open your mind to new possibilities.