When you are dating someone new, it can be hard to tell what their dating history has been like.
However, when a man has not been sleeping with another woman recently, there are some things that will give him away.
Are you curious? Here are the signs that a man has not been sexually active in a while!
1) He’s shy about showing you his body
If a man has not been with anyone in a long time, he will be shy about showing his body.
This is because, in his eyes, he is not in “ideal shape” to be seen by anyone else, or simply isn’t used to having his body seen by anyone.
If you find yourself dating someone like this, you can try to reassure him that you are interested in him and not his abs.
If he has been with very few women in his life, however, he might be a little more bashful than is normal.
Watch his body language carefully. If he is covering himself up, refusing to take off his shirt, and generally being very self-conscious, he might not have been with many women.
Now: if you are interested in this man, I suggest giving him some time to get confident around you.
You see, no man wants to be babied, especially not when it comes to the bedroom.
So: if you notice he is a bit reserved about taking off clothes or being around you in general, give him some time and still show him your interest.
He is likely to come out of his shell and be more confident in time.
If not, then you might need to talk to him openly about it.
Now: only do that if you’ve been seeing him for a while and still nothing has happened, not right away.
But in general, there is nothing wrong with asking him if everything is okay and if you can help the situation somehow.
2) He gets short on breath whenever he sees some skin
Many men who are not used to seeing women’s bodies will get short of breath when they see a woman wearing a low-cut shirt or showing some skin in general.
This is not a necessarily bad sign; however, if this happens when he sees something that is not all that revealing, it could be a sign that he is not used to being around women.
If he has not been with many women, he might be particularly surprised and short of breath.
Now: depending on your preference, this can be a really good thing.
You see, this man is already gasping at the mere suggestion of being with you, let alone actually sleeping with you!
So, this man will definitely make you feel special and desired.
Now: if he is very self-conscious and you are not sure this will work for you, then I suggest giving him some time.
He might need some time to adjust to the idea of being with a woman, or just with you in particular.
This is especially true if he has been in a long-term relationship or had a bad breakup.
And the best part?
This is a great sign that he is worshipping you and wants to treat you right.
He is not busting out of his clothes and being all over you because he just wants to have sex with you.
He is waiting for the perfect moment because he wants to be with you.
And that is a very good sign.
3) He wants to be your hero
I know, this sounds a bit cheesy, but it’s true! When a man wants to be your hero, chances are he wants to impress you and hasn’t slept with a lot of women recently.
You see, for guys, it’s all about triggering their inner hero.
I learned about this from the hero instinct. Coined by relationship expert James Bauer, this fascinating concept is about what really drives men in relationships, which is ingrained in their DNA.
And it’s something most women don’t know anything about.
Once triggered, these drivers make men into the heroes of their own lives. They feel better, love harder, and commit stronger when they find someone who knows how to trigger it.
Now, you may be wondering why it’s called “the hero instinct”? Do guys really need to feel like superheroes to commit to a woman?
Not at all. Forget about Marvel. You won’t need to play the damsel in distress or buy your man a cape.
The easiest thing to do is to check out James Bauer’s excellent free video here. He shares some easy tips to get you started, such as sending him a 12-word text that will trigger his hero instinct right away.
Because that’s the beauty of the hero instinct.
It’s only a matter of knowing the right things to say to make him realize that he wants you and only you.
4) He makes deep, intense eye contact
A man who is not used to sleeping with many women will probably be very focused and intense when he looks you in the eyes.
This is because he is not used to the normal flirting and lightheartedness that comes with dating and being around women.
If a man has not been dating a lot recently, he will probably look deeply into your eyes without being playful or interested in a fun interaction.
If you notice this and you are dating a man who has not been with other women in a while, be gentle and kind.
Let him know that you are interested in a fun, flirty interaction, and show him how to do it.
But trust me, this deep eye contact where you can almost see the passion sizzle in his eyes can be very… alluring to say the least.
So, don’t be afraid to go for it!
Now: there is a chance that he is, in fact, a huge fuckboy who has simply mastered the art of eye contact.
If that is the case, then you might not notice it right away.
But, if he has not been with many women and is making deep eye contact with you, then this is a great sign!
He will treat you like a queen.
5) He seems overly irritable or stressed
A man who has not been sleeping around much will probably be a little more stressed and irritable than a man who has been dating.
This is because he is not used to being in the company of women and hasn’t had the privilege of releasing stress like that in a while.
If you notice that your man is particularly irritable and stressed, it could be that he has not been dating for a long time.
He may also have relationship issues or unresolved issues from his past that are coming up.
Be gentle with him and try to help him let off some steam.
Now: While this is not always the most positive sign right off the bat, this irritability usually only comes up when he is feeling frustrated and a little bit desperate.
If that does not float your boat, you are under no obligation at all to entertain the thought of this man any longer, of course.
But, if this is something you are interested in exploring further, try to be gentle and kind.
Show him that you can be different from what he is used to, and show him some compassion.
He will probably appreciate it!
6) He blushes at the lightest touch
If a man has not been dating much, he will probably blush very easily.
This is because he is not used to being touched by other people. If you lightly touch his hand or his arm, he might blush.
This is a very normal sign that he is not used to being with many women.
It is not necessarily a bad sign; however, it can be a sign that he has not been dating very much and is not used to being with women.
Think about it: if someone is what we like to refer to as a “fuckboy”, he will not blush at a simple touch.
He is simply too used to being with women to see a slight touch of the hand or arm as anything special.
7) He is a really intent listener but gets distracted
If he is not used to being with many women, then he probably likes to listen to you but gets distracted by you easily.
This is not necessarily a bad thing!
It just means that you are so alluring to him that he simply can’t focus, no matter how hard he tries, which can be very attractive in a man.
He may even ask you questions and show interest in what you have to say.
It will be clear that he actually listens to what you have to say instead of trying to make small talk or change the subject, even though he gets distracted.
This relates back to the unique concept I mentioned earlier: the hero instinct.
When a man feels respected, useful, and needed, he’s more likely to want to be with you.
And the best part is, that triggering his hero instinct can be as simple as knowing the right thing to say over a text.
You can learn exactly what to do by watching this simple and genuine video by James Bauer.
8) He hasn’t had any recent relationships
If a man has not dated very recently, he probably has not been in a serious relationship in a long time.
There is a difference between “dating” and “being in a relationship.”
Dating is lighthearted fun and hanging out while being in a relationship is much more serious and intimate.
If a man has not been in a serious relationship in a long time, he probably has not been dating very much.
Now: while single guys are more known to sleep around, that doesn’t necessarily mean they get more if you know what I mean.
That’s why, if he hasn’t been in a relationship recently, his last partner could have been a while ago.
You can ask him about his dating history and see what he says. Be gentle and kind, and don’t interrogate him. Simply be curious about his past.
However, this only applies if you truly want to know.
9) There is a sense of urgency in his movement and touch
If you are dating a man who has not been with many women, there will be a sense of urgency in his movements.
He might be more clumsy and impatient than normal. He might also touch you very quickly and with a sense of urgency.
He is not used to being with women and can feel a sense of urgency to show those around him that he likes them.
This is especially true when you finally get down to business with him.
You will notice that behind his moves there seems to be a sense of urgency like he has been waiting a long time for this.
His movements will seem hurried, and he might even make some mistakes that he wouldn’t normally make.
If you are dating a man who has not been with many women, be gentle.
Let him know that you appreciate his actions but that he does not need to be so frantic about everything.
10) When you kiss him, you notice that he gets turned on
When you are with a man who has not been with many women, you might notice that he gets turned on very quickly by your kiss.
If you notice that he gets very excited and heated after kissing you, it might be a sign that he is not used to being with many other women.
You see, when a guy sleeps with a lot of women, a kiss is sometimes nothing super special for him anymore.
Only when a guy has not been around the female gender too much recently, he will get turned on by the smallest things.
Now: if you notice it, be gentle. Don’t tease him about it.
Simply let him know that you enjoy it and that you like being with him.
11) He is very affectionate with you
When a man hasn’t been with many women, he might be very affectionate with his girlfriend or lover.
This can be both physical and emotional. He might show his love by holding your hand, hugging you, or kissing you often.
He will also tend to get attached to his partner easily and quickly, especially if she is the first woman he has been with in a long time.
If this is the case, don’t worry! This is actually a good thing! It means that he cares for you and likes being close to you!
Be careful though: if he tries to get too clingy and smothering too fast, don’t hesitate to tell him off about it!
12) He is very drawn to you
If a man has not been with many people, he will probably be very drawn to you.
You see, if a man has not been with many women, he will probably be very drawn to you and want to spend as much time with you as possible.
He will probably also want to be very physical with you, show you off to his friends and family, and be very possessive of you.
You will notice that he can’t seem to keep his hands off you, something about you just seems to attract him like a magnet. The more time you spend together, the more he will want you.
Now: of course, this could also just mean that you are a great match and very compatible – even experienced men tend to get weak for the right woman.
However, in most cases, this sense of not being able to stay away or stop touching you is often associated with not having had a partner in a while!
Be gentle and kind. Let him know that you appreciate his attention but that he does not need to be so intense (if it is getting too much for you).
13) He’s nervous around you
If a man who has not been with many women is around you, he will probably be very nervous.
He might fidget, stare at the ground, and not know what to say.
This is because he is not used to being around women and wants to make a good impression.
You see, playboys who have a new girl every week are very used to flirting and being charming.
They usually don’t get very nervous around women anymore.
Now: a guy who hasn’t slept with anyone in a while? He might get super nervous around you.
And the best part?
No matter how much recent experience a guy has, if he gets nervous around you, that means he really likes you a lot and wants to impress you!
Be gentle with him, and let him know that you appreciate his interest in you and that there is no pressure for him to be perfect.
So, what now?
It can be hard to tell what a man’s dating history has been like.
However, there are some signs that will give him away.
When you are dating someone new, you can use these signs to help you figure out what his dating history has been like.
Now: don’t be afraid to ask a potential partner about their recent dating history.
Especially when planning to have sex with him, it is important to know if he sleeps around a lot or if he hasn’t had a partner in several months, if not more.
With the right guy, this should not be a super difficult conversation to have.
By now you should have a better idea of how to tell if a man has not been sexually active in a while.
So the key now is getting through to your man in a way that empowers both him and you.
I mentioned the concept of the hero instinct earlier — by appealing directly to his primal instincts, you won’t only solve this issue, but you’ll take your relationship further than ever before.
And since this free video reveals exactly how to trigger your man’s hero instinct, you could make this change as early as today.
With James Bauer’s incredible concept, he’ll see you as the only woman for him. So if you’re ready to take that plunge, be sure to check out the video now.