When you stop liking someone, they start to like you. It’s a strange phenomenon but it happens almost every time.
It’s reminiscent of the movie “ Cruel Intentions ” where when you love someone, they won’t love you back, but when you stop loving them, they will love you again.
What is going on here? Why does this happen?
Well, there are 10 reasons why this happens which we will discuss in this article.
1) They realized you are a better option than other people.
You may be surprised to know that when you stop liking someone, they will realize that you are a better option than the other people around.
The person who liked you previously thought that the person he was with wouldn’t be a good fit for him.
However, when you stop liking him, he will realize that you are a better option than the other people around you.
2) They had feelings for you before but didn’t realize it until you left.
When you stop liking someone, the person will realize that he or she has some kind of feelings for you.
Maybe they liked you before but didn’t realize it.
They may be so used to seeing you in a certain light or being around you for a certain reason that they never noticed how much they actually like you.
All of the sudden, this person who once ignored you will start showing interest in you all over again.
For me, I think you can give them a chance to let them prove the love they themselves have for you.
And if in that case, you have decided to return his feelings, then I think you two need to nurture the relationship more so that it can progress in a good way.
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3) They are trying to win you.
When you stop liking someone, they may actually just try to win you over.
They see your love life as a game and they want to be the winner.
All of the sudden, this person who used to ignore or push you away will change his or her tune:
- This person will start to be more nice and more flattering.
- This person is basically making a big effort to win you over, but what they are trying to win is not your heart but your attention.
- This person is trying to prove that they can change and be someone else, someone better to earn your trust.
To do this, they will try to impress you with their good behavior and kind words.
But that’s just a trap for them to use you to prove their own attractiveness, not really love you.
4) You have changed and they didn’t see that in you in the past.
When you stop liking someone, it’s possible that the person will have changed their mind about you.
All of the sudden, they will see something in you that they didn’t see before.
They will notice new energy about you or a new sense of self-confidence or maturity and this is what makes them realize that makes them start to have an interest in you.
5) They feel jealous and want what they cannot have.
Jealousy is a complicated emotion.
It can be triggered by many different situations, and it can have different effects on different people.
For some people, jealousy can be an intense feeling of insecurity and envy, while for others, it can be a more neutral feeling of uncertainty.
When you stop liking someone, they will feel jealous and want what they cannot have.
This is a primal emotion that all of us have when we see someone else doing something better or having something that we do not have.
This is why we have jealousy.
When you stop liking someone, they will feel jealous and want what they cannot have.
6) They become aware of what they are missing when you’re not around anymore.
When you are not in the picture, he starts to notice things that he wasn’t seeing before.
- He starts to see things like he has a lack of care and affection.
- He starts to realize how much he depends on you for his sense of identity.
- He starts to feel fulfilled and incomplete without you in his life.
This is especially true when it comes to romantic relationships.
When someone is not in the picture, you end up missing their presence and presence becomes an empty space where your soul would normally be.
7) People often mistake lust for love, so maybe that’s what’s happening.
Lust is not the same as love, because lust is often driven by fleeting feelings that are linked to strong urges.
But love is a more enduring feeling that develops over time.
Your crush may be tempted to act on their feelings without thinking things through first.
Maybe they’re just acting like they like you just because they feel there’s something new about you right now that appeals to them.
It’s like when you don’t like them anymore, you become stronger, more independent which makes them suddenly feel like you.
But you know what?
After all, it could only be their temporary lust and not from their true love for you and it disappears quickly after a while.
8) Maybe they were only using you for something.
It’s hard to be sure, in the middle of all this.
You may also want to consider that when someone likes you, they are only using you for something.
For example, they might be using you as a means to achieve their goals in life.
Maybe he or she thinks you’re hot, or maybe they want to get laid, or maybe they think you’re the one who can give them something they want.
But whatever the reason, there may be a deeper issue going on.
So if you think the person was only using you for something, then it might be best to move on now rather than wait.
9) They want to prove they can change your mind.
When you stop liking someone, they will start to show interest in you again.
They want to prove they can change your mind.
They want you to think that you are wrong when not continuing falling in love with them.
They want your approval to turn back and will do anything to obtain it.
They will make up stories, lie, get under your skin, and manipulate you into doing whatever they want.
They want you to think that they are always right.
This is a ploy to make you feel as if you need to bend to their will and be on their side in order for them to love you.
They want you to think that it is always your fault when things go wrong.
This is another way for them to try and control you and make you feel guilty when leaving them and when things go wrong between the two of you.
10) They just want to mess with your head.
There are a lot of reasons why someone may show interest in you.
Some people want to start a relationship, while others just want to have fun.
So sometimes people start liking you not because they have changed, but because they want to mess with your head.
They will always try to find an excuse to talk to you.
If they see you as attractive, they might be trying to make the first move.
Next, they try to show that they are curious about you and like your personality, they care about you and show off their good side.
They’ll probably end up messing around with someone else instead of you once they realize that you’re not interested.
But after all, when you feel that they like you and then once you let your guard down, they will break your heart again.
This is a form of psychological warfare designed to hurt and emotionally hurt the other person.
It can be for revenge or for any number of reasons.
Conclusion
So here you have it, ten reasons why someone might suddenly start liking you when you stop liking them.
Like anything in life, this is not a black-or-white situation.
It is quite complicated and you have to make the most suitable choice to create happiness for yourself.
If you see signs or changes in someone’s behavior after you tell them that you no longer like them, then perhaps it may be best for you to stop.
You will feel better.
In the end, it was about you and what you wanted for your life, and not anyone else’s feelings.
As long as you can live with the decision you made, then there is no reason to have regrets.
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