We are no longer together. She decided that she wanted a divorce after 5 years of marriage. This ring was picked out and given to me to celebrate our one year anniversary. Well, right after year five, she decided that everything about me made her unhappy. After a few months of trying to go to counseling, she finally told me that she had been seeing someone else for almost a year. We have since divorced. I have moved on with my life and have fallen in love again. On the other hand, her affair has since fizzled out and she regrets everything.