I was married for five years to a man I had been with on and off since I was 17 (now 28). I had the fairy tale wedding of my dreams to the man of my dreams (or so I thought). I went to law school (4 hours away from home), graduated, and moved back home. Six months later, he left. No explanation. We agreed to work on things and fix our marriage. Two weeks later, I then find out that: 1. He went back to his ex during the time we were “working on things;” 2. He had a six year old child that “He didn’t know about” with that ex; and 3. He was living with her. Needless to say, I moved on too.