I’m selling it because I was with someone who brought it as a birthday present I don’t find letting people go particularly easy and I find it helpful to let go of anything to do wth him instead; I got use to wearing the necklace and when it came off I noticed it gone more which lead me to thinking of him again!! So a bit of retail therapy didn’t go a miss as I replaced it with a new one that I bought and chose for myself; it made me feel more empowered of my emotions and as if though I was gaining my control back, the necklace held a significant symbol of ‘you belong to me’ I saw it more as a dog collar and considering how he treated me I felt it more just to wear to prove I had a boyfriend not because he loved me.