Relationship with husband dissolved (were together for 20 years and grew apart – no good story there) and ended up shacking up with what seemed to be an amazing guy from work. He turned out to be a lazy, woman hating, uneducated, impediment little boy (he is almost 50 years old). He basically played video games all day long running away from the demons on the screen and in his head . Went a year and a half with no sex. When I confronted him about it he said “I can’t even get myself hard to masturbate.” I guess since he couldn’t have sex with himself it was okay for him not to have sex with me too. Stuck it out for four years. Rebounds really don’t last. He is now in therapy finding himself and doing yoga. Good for him, maybe his dick works now. I am now in a healthy fulfilling relationship with a man I should have been with all along. Go me!
