We dated off and on for four years. He would constantly go through spells of ‘I don’t know what I want’ but we would end up back together. This last time he told me it just ‘wasn’t fair to me’ that he ‘wasn’t meant to be in a relationship’ and he ‘wasn’t looking for anyone else right now. Just to be alone.’ A week later he’s on a date with some girl who has liked him for quite some time.