Kept Me His Dirty Little Secret

We met in high school, and had a very strong passionate relationship. We planned our life together and I was convinced we would get married. His family never brought me into their lives or acknowledged my existence, and we dated secretly for 6 years from everyone. I finally ended it after we’d been living in the same town, and I would only see him every few months (he lived at home and was commuting to school). Claimed he couldn’t “call me or see me”, could only text me. I broke it off and rebounded with someone else. He was narcissistic and manipulative, I felt bad so I got back together with him. He then became verbally and emotionally abusive, lowering my self-esteem and self-worth. I was depressed, unemployed, and in the worst place of my life when he stopped responding to me altogether and I hadn’t heard from him in a few months. Later, I found out he was dating someone else (whom his family welcomed with open arms) and never bothered to break up with me or let me know (I thought we were giving each other space). Gets serious with his gf, keeps me on the side as a “mistress” and cheats on gf with me, gets engaged to her, cheats on her again with me, and finally married her. Strung me along through the roller coaster for a decade. Finally, I’m rid of the worst human being and family I ever had the displeasure of knowing :)