Okay, he’s just not that into you and he’s allowed to be. Because we’re just not that into guys too, sometimes. Believe it or not, ladies, it works both ways, and we don’t always follow proper “breakup” protocol either. But, when the guy you’ve been seeing suddenly vanishes into thin air – the 21st century dating phenomenon better known as “ghosting” – things can get a little frustrating.
In this interconnected world where we’re constantly communicating with one another, it seems we’ve lost the ability to be honest with each other about our feelings, or when it seems like things won’t work out after all. Men sometimes don’t know the proper steps to take when they want to break it off with us. They get freaked out, so they ghost.
It happens to the best of us. So instead of letting the Caspers get us down, how about a list of ways guys can get a little more creative with their disappearing acts? Here it goes…
1. Watch Ghostbusters with us before you plan on silently exiting our lives forever.
2. Feed us first! Asking us to grab pizza via text with a ghost emoji will do.
3. Send a creative Snapchat, because it will soon disappear like you will.
4. Send a ghosting care package to help emotionally prep us.
5. Write us a funny handwritten note, the opposite of a love letter, to ease the pain.
Word to the wise, gents.
