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This week’s question comes to us from Little Miss No Text Back… here’s what Angelique has to say!
Q: I’ve been texting a guy approximately a month and we both confessed about a chemistry going on each time we text. We’ve thought of being together but just last week, he started being somewhat unfriendly. Then this week, he totally stopped replying to my messages all together (although he read them). What should I do? I feel like I want an explanation from him, it just doesn’t make any sense why he stopped replying.
A: This is a hard one, but in all honesty, by him completely ignoring your texts he is giving you the answer you need. I say move on! I know it’s hard especially because there is no explanation given from his end, but you don’t need someone in your life that doesn’t even take the time to respond back. I know personally that it sometimes makes me feel better to express my feelings, especially in writing, so if you need to send him one last text voicing our opinion and telling him that this will be the last time you are reaching out go ahead, but once againonly if you feel it’s going to make you feel better. Be prepared to not get an answer back though. I think the best thing for you to do is move on, delete his number so that way you can’t reach out and if you are following him on any forms of social media unfriend/unfollow him immediately. Trust me, it will be the best for you in order to move on. This too shall pass, I promise! You just need some time. Focus on yourself and make time to hang out with friends–keep yourself busy! Good luck and stay strong!
