9 freaky things to do to your boyfriend for a passionate night

9 freaky things to do to your boyfriend for a passionate night

Posted by Dania Aziz on October 2, 2023
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We all have intimate moments with our partners, but sometimes those moments can feel a bit mundane, lacking that passionate spark we crave.

You might look back on your relationship and struggle to recall the last time you did something exciting or unexpected for your boyfriend, or feel uncertain about how to reignite the flame that once burned fiercely.

How do you know if your relationship is needing a bit of spice, or if it’s just the typical ebbs and flows most couples face?

After reflecting deeply on my own relationship and those of my friends, I have compiled a list of 9 freaky things that you can do to give your boyfriend a passionate night he won’t forget.

If these suggestions strike a chord, it might be time to step out of your comfort zone.

1) Explore his hidden fantasies

Every individual has their own unique set of fantasies, some buried deep within the recesses of their minds, waiting for the right moment to be brought to light. Your boyfriend is no exception.

You may think you know him like the back of your hand, but it’s possible there are desires he’s kept hidden, either out of shyness or fear of judgment.

How do you uncover these hidden gems?

Initiate a conversation – one that’s open, honest, and without any judgment.

Assure him that his fantasies are safe with you and that exploring them could add an exhilarating new dimension to your intimate moments.

It might feel a bit uncomfortable at first, but remember: vulnerability is the birthplace of deeper connection.

By showing that you’re open to his fantasies, you’re creating a safe space where your boyfriend can express himself freely – leading to a passionate night neither of you will forget.

2) Surprise him with a romantic setup

In the hustle and bustle of daily life, we often let romance take a backseat.

But what if one day, your boyfriend comes home to a sultry surprise?

Imagine this, his favorite meal cooked to perfection, candlelit setting, seductive music in the background, and you dressed up in his favorite outfit of yours.

The element of surprise can be exciting itself!

This requires a bit of planning and effort but it’s worth every bit of it.

Seeing you going out of your way to create a romantic atmosphere will not only make him feel loved but also desired.

It’s not just about the physical act but also about creating an emotional ambiance that sets the stage for a passionate night.

3) Learn his love language

A few years into my relationship, I noticed that my boyfriend didn’t react as enthusiastically to my love notes or carefully planned surprise dinners.

For a while, I was disheartened, thinking my efforts were going unnoticed. Until one day, I discovered the concept of ‘love languages’.

Developed by Gary Chapman, the concept of love languages suggests that each person has a preferred way of receiving love – it could be words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, or physical touch.

I decided to delve deeper and understand my boyfriend’s love language.

Turns out his was ‘physical touch’.

He felt most loved when I held his hand unexpectedly, gave him a back rub after a long day, or simply cuddled while watching a movie.

Once I understood this, I started to incorporate more of these gestures into our daily life. And the difference was palpable.

Our connection deepened and our intimate moments became more passionate.

So, if you’re looking for ways to add passion to your relationship, try to understand your boyfriend’s love language.

It could open up a whole new world of intimacy and connection for both of you.

4) Experiment with new experiences

It’s human nature to be drawn to novelty.

Our brains are wired to respond positively to new experiences, releasing dopamine – a neurotransmitter associated with pleasure and reward.

Imagine harnessing this power of novelty in your relationship.

Instead of sticking to the same old routine, shake things up a bit.

Plan an adventurous date night, try a new cuisine together, or perhaps, discover a new city.

In the realm of intimacy, this could mean exploring new positions, incorporating toys, or trying out a different setting.

The thrill of uncharted territory can lead to increased attraction and desire.

By regularly introducing new experiences, you’re not just keeping the romance alive, but also paving the way for nights filled with passion and excitement.

5) Initiate more often

In my relationship, like many others, it was often my boyfriend who initiated our intimate moments.

Over time, I realized that this dynamic had become a routine. So, I decided to switch things up.

One day, without any special occasion or prompting, I took the lead.

I initiated, not waiting for him to make the first move. I could see the surprise in his eyes, followed by an undeniable spark of desire.

What I learned from this experience was invaluable: initiation isn’t just about starting something; it’s about expressing desire, appreciation, and attraction towards your partner.

It sends a powerful message – I want you and I’m not afraid to show it.

This shift in dynamic added an unexpected layer of passion to our relationship.

6) Leave a trail of seductive clues

Mystery and anticipation can be potent ingredients for a passionate night.

I decided to experiment with this by creating a seductive scavenger hunt for my boyfriend.

I left little notes around the house, each one leading him to the next, building anticipation with every clue.

The final note led him to the bedroom where I was waiting for him, setting the stage for a night filled with passion and excitement.

This playful game not only added an element of fun but also allowed us to connect on a deeper level.

To spice up your relationship, think about making a similar game.

The excitement of the pursuit can lead to a memorable and passionate night.

7) Dare to bare your feelings

Expressing our deepest feelings can often feel daunting, but it’s a powerful way to connect with your partner on an emotional level.

I remember one night when I decided to share my deepest feelings with my boyfriend.

I told him how much I appreciated him, how he made me feel special and loved.

These heartfelt words opened up a new level of intimacy between us and led to one of our most passionate nights.

Daring to bare your feelings shows vulnerability, and this openness can pave the way for deeper connection and passion in your relationship.

8. Make him feel desired

Feeling wanted can really lift someone’s spirits and help relationships grow stronger.

It’s good to tell your partner what you like about them.

It could be about how smart they are, how they make you laugh, or how they face tough times.

Imagine someone coming home tired and hearing nice things about how well they juggle work and home.

Or someone feeling down about how they look, but their partner tells them they have the most beautiful eyes or a contagious smile.

Simple kind words can make regular days feel special. When we show appreciation like this, we can feel closer and more connected to each other.

When we show someone they’re loved and valued, our relationship becomes even better.

9. Create a sensual environment

Our senses, like seeing, hearing, and smelling, really affect how we feel.

Knowing this, I decided one day to set up a special evening full of things that make our senses happy. I played some soft, nice music that made the room feel calm and love-filled.

To make the room even nicer, I lit some good-smelling candles.

Their light was soft and made the room cozy, and their scent made us feel warm and comfortable. I also prepared a warm bath.

The water, looking nice under the candlelight, was inviting us to relax and be close.

This special setup was not just about looking and smelling nice; it was about waking up our senses and making us feel relaxed and connected.

That evening had a strong effect, leading to a very special night that we still remember.

In simple words, making the effort to set up a relaxing and romantic space can be really important when you want to have memorable, close times with your boyfriend.

Closer together

Keeping the spark alive in any relationship requires effort, creativity, and a willingness to step outside of one’s comfort zone.

The “freaky” suggestions provided in this article aren’t just about novelty or shock value; they’re about forging deeper connections, exploring uncharted territories of intimacy, and maintaining an element of surprise.

Whether you choose to implement all nine or just a few, remember that the aim is to make your moments together unforgettable.

A passionate night is just as much about emotional closeness as it is about physical intimacy.

Embrace the journey of discovery with your partner and enjoy every passionate moment you create.

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