I was feeling really bad about myself so we decided to join a gym together. It wasn’t going very well (it was toward the end of the relationship) so I was keeping all of my weight on (stress related?) And Iwas a bit paunchy but by no means obese or overweight. I stepped on the scale and cried about the number. He weighed less than I did and I felt disgusting. Instead of making me feel better, he just straight up told me to “eat less” and when I got mad he said: “I just call it like I see it. It’s my engineer’s brain.”
