After 32 years of marriage husband falls for 40 year old co-worker who is married and having an affair when husband meets her.(ex is 58 years old)He decides divorce should be nasty-they both thrive on the drama, as the only thing they have in common. Ex recruited sister to be a witness in his behalf-she obliged. He spend hours on the phone with her and was even visiting my Mother in her home, which destroyed our family. I have been accused of hiring a hit on him-I am to frugal would have done so myself to save $. He bought new cars, hotel rooms, new furniture and expensive gifts for the skank. And what did my lawyers do nothing! Is it because I am not a southern bell and will voice what I know to believe is fair? My second attorney approved a divorce decree without my knowledge which does not even resemble the mediation agreement, that is a joke in itself. The judge signed the divorce decree and I did not know I was divorced until a month later. I have spent so much money on worthless attorneys who have screwed me! And Bozo increased legal fees by filing a bogus restraining order against me so we had no communication to work things out. He even used my retainer to set up visitations with the dog, with my attorney who then charged me for the time. I played fair. What bothers me is the fact that after 32 years of marriage, the amount of contempt and hate he has for me. Its scary to realize I never knew him and how low he would stoop to destroy me, my family, reputation and health. And how he has been in contempt of court for three years and has got away with it. So today I fire attorney #3 who wanted a 10k retainer(gave 5k so far) and its been 8months now and she has not done a fucking thing! Its such a joke its almost funny!
