After dating the man I thought was “the one” for almost 3 years, I looked at his phone and found not one but TWO of his exes PLUS another who he has never liked (that I know of). I looked through this phone, and felt guilty/ knew it was wrong, but I had the gut feeling to do it.. And sure enough when I did there they were under his recents. He had deleted the messages (sketchy) so I will never know what they were truly about, and I do not believe what he claims they were about. after all he is a liar. I have been through so much with this guy. We are high school sweethearts, and I always thought we would work out and get married. We’ve been through deaths, milestones and everything in between together. Now that this has happened and I’ve caught him in lies over and over again since I found the messages, I will never trust him again.
We had been fighting a ton for the past 8 months, anyway. We broke up and ever since we got together it has never been the same anyway. Maybe it’s for the best, but it’s just so damn hard to quit throwing a pity party and to MOVE ON. Hopefully I can find the strength to do so..
