We left for college and were still dating. I bought two tickets to go visit him at his school which was $250 each of my own money. Then after I see him the first time he told me that he cheated on me twice the week before I saw him but I already had my second flight purchased so I put it aside until I saw him next. Then, I totally avoided the topic. Then a month after my second visit, he told me he had been hooking up with a girl for 3 weeks and introduced her to her parents. He’s my cousins best friend so I still see him all the time. Current status is drinking heavily.