We’d been together 3 years. He cheated on me with a girl he worked with. I found out, and he was angry that I’d found out. Broke up with me because “you’re too much, I can’t handle being with you when you’re like this.” Despite that, told me nothing was going on with the girl, it was just a fling.
Within a week of breaking up, he was going out on dates with her and kissing her. When I called him on it, he told me it was nothing and “we’ve broken up so why do you care?”
(maybe because we were still living together and it’s a dick-move?)
He said he’d move out but made no attempts to find a new place. After 5 weeks, I was fed up and found my own place.
He said he wanted to be friends, and that he didn’t want to lose me, so begged to come around for dinner and hang out … which inevitably turned into him wanting sex, which i declined.
So then he cracked it that I wouldn’t have sex with him and told me he didn’t want to talk to me anymore.
I told him that was fine – I was moving on, seeing someone else … he told me how hurt he was that I was seeing someone else.
(Mate, remember that time you CHEATED on me when we were in a relationship!?)
We haven’t spoken for a couple of months now … but he emailed today to ask if he could borrow my motorbike jacket so that some new girl he’s seeing can wear it when he takes her on a motorbike ride …
SERIOUSLY!?!
Life has been 100000x better without him in it. He’s immature, an idiot, rude, inconsiderate, and ultimately, a jerk!
