Grew up with him as kids, Spent three years dating him, moved in together for twelve months with his family, he’d had an engagement ring for over twelve months by the time we broke up but apparently after he bought it we weren’t ready so everyday for at least twelve months i woke up to no proposal; aka you’re still not good enough it felt like to me. He was a very shy person but after 3 years he still wasn’t comfortable to hold my hand in public, and still didn’t introduce me as ‘girlfriend’. His mum was so controlling of him, he didnt even know how to do his own banking at 20! let alone any other life skills. she would always do his banking and after 3 years i still wasnt allowed to! I put so much effort into saving us, i googled relationship DIY techniques but the last straw was he refused to see a relationship counsellor, just once.
I’ve since met a guy that is proud to hold my hand in public, and tells me exactly whats on his mind, I’m just angry I spent so much time trying to save a relationship with someone who didn’t appreciate me!
Break-Up Phase: (what's this?)