Feeling Stupid
Of course at work is where it always happens…. I met this guy who right away we hit it off and it was always all smiles and butterflies. We spent so many wonderful days and nights together. The down fall was he was very controlling and jealous and already had a baby mama. I changed a lot about myself because I wanted us to work and even when things would get hard because his ex didn’t want us to be together. He swore over and over again he couldnt stand her and they will and would never work out. All of a sudden our relationship changed. Literally a switch had been flipped and he changed overnight. I would ask over and over again what was wrong, if it was me? And that we could work through anything. He said to me he needed time because “things were just getting too hard”. He breaks up with me one night and the very next morning I get a call from his baby mama laughing telling me shes pregnant by him again. I try and call him to find out whats going on and to my surprise he changed his number. Didn’t hear from him again and now months later they are registered at babies R us.
Break-Up Phase: (what's this?)
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Remember this she does not have anymore than you did. If she thinks she has a prize she is just as crazy as he is. They belong together.
Oh my goodness, I am so sorry. I had a very similar experience and it was horrible. Just know that it gets better and the pain will fade.
What a horrid experience. In the long run it's lucky you're not with this creeper, but i get the pain and shock. Time really will heal...